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Samson and Delilah: A Cautionary Tale About Flirting with Sin

M.T. Omoniyi
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Samson and Delilah: A Cautionary Tale About Flirting with Sin

The story of Samson and Delilah in Judges 16 is one of the Bible’s most sobering cautionary tales. It’s the story of a man chosen and anointed by God, equipped with incredible strength to deliver Israel, who fell not because of his physical weakness but because of his inability to resist temptation. Samson’s downfall serves as a warning to us today about the dangers of toying with sin and underestimating its consequences.

Samson was a man of extraordinary strength, set apart from birth as a Nazirite to serve God (Judges 13:5). Yet, despite his calling, he repeatedly made choices that put him in situations of spiritual and moral compromise. One of the most striking examples of this was his relationship with Delilah.

Delilah was enlisted by the Philistine rulers to uncover the secret of Samson’s strength. Time and again, she pleaded with him, coaxed him, and ultimately manipulated him. At first, Samson lied to her, giving her false explanations for his strength. But Delilah was persistent. Despite her repeated betrayals—each time attempting to subdue him after hearing a supposed “secret”—Samson stayed with her.

This pattern is perplexing. Why didn’t Samson leave? After all, it was clear that Delilah was not acting in his best interests. But instead of fleeing from her, Samson allowed himself to stay entangled in her schemes. In doing so, he underestimated the danger of his situation and overestimated his ability to handle it.

The Slow Drift Toward Destruction

Samson’s flirtation with temptation was not an isolated incident; it was part of a larger pattern in his life. From marrying a Philistine woman against his parents’ advice (Judges 14:3), to touching a dead lion’s carcass and eating honey from it in violation of his Nazirite vow (Judges 14:8-9), Samson repeatedly ignored God’s commands. His relationship with Delilah was just another step in his downward spiral.

Each time Samson lied to Delilah about the source of his strength, he edged closer to revealing the truth. Finally, after being nagged “day after day until he was sick to death of it” (Judges 16:16), Samson gave in and revealed that his strength lay in his uncut hair—a symbol of his covenant with God. That moment of weakness marked the end of his physical power and the beginning of his downfall. The Philistines seized him, gouged out his eyes, and made him a prisoner.

Samson’s story is a powerful reminder that sin rarely overtakes us in one sudden moment. More often, it’s the result of a gradual process, a series of small compromises that lead us further and further from God. Proverbs 16:18 warns, “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” Samson’s pride in his strength and his disregard for the consequences of his actions blinded him to the danger he was in—both physically and spiritually.

Learning from Samson’s Mistakes

There are several important lessons we can draw from Samson’s story:

1. Recognise Temptation for What It Is

Samson’s downfall began because he failed to see Delilah’s true intentions. He convinced himself he could handle the situation, even when all the evidence pointed to the contrary. As believers, we must be vigilant and discerning, recognising when something—or someone—is leading us away from God. James 1:14-15 reminds us that “each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”

2. Don’t Toy with Sin

Samson repeatedly put himself in situations where he was vulnerable to temptation. Instead of fleeing from Delilah, he stayed with her, believing he could control the outcome. This is a dangerous mindset. Sin is not something to be managed or negotiated with; it’s something to flee from. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 10:13 that God provides a way out of temptation, but we must take it. When we linger in the presence of sin, we give it the opportunity to take root in our lives.

3. Humility is Key

Samson’s pride in his strength blinded him to his dependence on God. He believed that he could reveal his secret to Delilah and still escape unscathed. But Samson’s strength was not his own—it was a gift from God, tied to his obedience. When we forget that our abilities and successes come from God, we become vulnerable to the sin of pride. Humility keeps us grounded and reminds us of our need for God’s grace.

A Path to Redemption

Samson’s story doesn’t end in despair. In his final moments, blinded and bound, Samson called out to God: “Sovereign Lord, remember me. Please, God, strengthen me just once more” (Judges 16:28). Though his life ended in sacrifice, Samson’s prayer shows that God’s mercy is always available to those who turn back to Him.

For us, the lesson is clear: while sin can lead to devastating consequences, God’s grace is greater. But we must not wait until we are at the point of destruction to seek Him. By recognizing our weaknesses, fleeing from temptation, and walking in humility, we can avoid the traps of sin and live in the strength and freedom that comes from God.

The story of Samson and Delilah is a cautionary tale about the dangers of flirting with sin and underestimating its power. Like Samson, we are all vulnerable to temptation. But by learning from his mistakes, we can avoid his fate. Don’t let pride blind you to your weaknesses. Instead, rely on God’s strength, stay vigilant, and flee from temptation before it’s too late.

Sin Thrills and Then It Kills: Planning Ahead to Avoid the Trap of Sin

M.T. Omoniyi
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Sin Thrills and Then It Kills: Planning Ahead to Avoid the Trap of Sin

Today I begin a five-week series while I’ll be looking at Sin, the effect it has on our lives and how we can avoid it. I’m tackling the series because as we get older, we tend to have fewer places where we can speak openly about Sin. There is an unspoken expectation in the Christian world that does you get older you should naturally be sinless, and so many people don’t have a place to talk about it. In turn, they feel isolated, given the devil space to flood their head with lies. In this series, we will tackle those lies as we bring sin into the light.

Craig Groeschel’s book Think Ahead encourages us to live intentionally by looking beyond the immediate moment and considering the long-term implications of our decisions. This principle is especially vital when it comes to sin. Groeschel writes, “What you don’t plan for, you’ll stumble into.” This is a sobering reminder that without foresight and intentionality, we can fall into sin’s seductive traps. Sin may thrill for a moment, but it ultimately kills—our peace, our relationships, and sometimes even our faith. As Christians, we are called to plan ahead to resist the allure of sin and live lives that honour God.

The Deceptive Allure of Sin

The Bible is clear about the nature of sin: it looks appealing but leads to destruction. James 1:14-15 warns us, “But each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” Sin is never neutral. It draws us in with promises of pleasure, success, or satisfaction, but it always delivers consequences far worse than the fleeting thrill it provides.

Think about King David in 2 Samuel 11. He didn’t wake up one-morning planning to commit adultery with Bathsheba and arrange for her husband’s death. His downfall began with a seemingly small decision to stay home when he should have been leading his army. One decision led to another, and before long, David was ensnared in a web of sin. The thrill of the moment led to devastating consequences.

Planning Ahead to Resist Temptation

To avoid falling into sin’s traps, we must think ahead. Proverbs 22:3 states, “The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” Planning ahead involves recognizing the dangers of sin, setting boundaries, and relying on God’s wisdom to guide our actions.

Craig Groeschel suggests in Think Ahead that we identify our vulnerabilities and create guardrails to protect ourselves. For example, if you struggle with envy, avoid spending hours scrolling through social media and comparing your life to others. If you’re tempted by unhealthy relationships, set clear boundaries and seek accountability. “Wisdom isn’t about knowing what to avoid,” Groeschel writes, “it’s about creating a plan to stay far away from the edge.”

The Power of Scripture and Community

Psalm 119:11 says, “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Scripture equips us to recognize sin and resist its pull. Jesus himself used Scripture to combat Satan’s temptations in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11). When we saturate our minds with God’s Word, we strengthen our ability to discern between what is right and what is wrong.

Additionally, accountability is crucial. James 5:16 encourages us to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other so that we may be healed. Surrounding ourselves with fellow believers who challenge and encourage us helps us stay vigilant and avoid isolation, which is where sin often thrives.

Planning ahead doesn’t mean we rely solely on our own strength to resist sin. Philippians 4:13 reminds us, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” When we depend on God and remain in constant prayer, He provides the strength we need to overcome temptation.

Craig Groeschel’s approach in Think Ahead aligns with the biblical call to “be alert and of sober mind” (1 Peter 5:8). The enemy is always looking for opportunities to trip us up, but God has given us the tools to stay vigilant. Through His Word, the support of Christian community, and the power of the Holy Spirit, we can avoid sin’s deadly snare.

Living with Eternity in Mind

Sin’s thrill is temporary, but its consequences can be eternal. Conversely, the rewards of living a life that pleases God last forever. Galatians 6:8 reminds us, “Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.” Thinking ahead isn’t just about avoiding sin but about intentionally pursuing righteousness and living with eternity in mind.

By planning ahead and relying on God’s guidance, we can avoid the traps of sin and live lives that reflect His glory. As Groeschel emphasizes in Think Ahead, small decisions today can have significant consequences tomorrow. Let’s choose wisely, remembering that while sin may thrill for a moment, it ultimately kills—but Christ offers life, and life abundantly.

A Message to Doubting Christians

Jeremiah Ayara
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A Message to Doubting Christians

Have you ever felt great distress about the state of your salvation, wrestling with the haunting question, “Am I truly saved? Have I truly believed, or am I being deceived?’ Or, like me, have you ever been so overwhelmed by doubt that you checked the news to see if the rapture had already taken place, convinced you were left behind because you couldn’t find anyone in the house?

It wouldn’t be surprising if you, reading this, have experienced something similar at some point in your Christian walk.

Many of us Christians today walk with such uncertainty; constantly looking over our shoulders as if salvation was never meant to keep us secure in the first place. I wonder why we feel like this. A few reasons came to my mind as I reflected on this. One possibility is the fear of being proud or presumptuous as if claiming certainty in our salvation might lead to spiritual arrogance. Another reason could be that the weight and guilt of our sins cloud our minds, making us think, “There’s no way my heart could be saved and still be so wicked”. Or perhaps, as we read God’s Word and it convicts us deeply, it reveals areas of our lives that don’t align with the characteristics Christ calls His people to display and this leaves us questioning our standing before Him. There are many reasons we may wrestle with these doubts.

However, like any problem, an adequate solution can never be offered until the root cause has been identified. As I approached the week of FOCUS 24 (a Christian retreat organised by On Mission in Wales), I found myself lacking in zeal, and this greatly affected my joy. I shared how I was feeling with one of the seminar leaders during the retreat, as well as with a church worker afterwards, and shockingly (though not shockingly), they both gave similar responses (paraphrased): “What you need is to go back to the Gospel.” I believe this statement reveals the root cause of this uncertainty in our walk. We have forgotten the Gospel.

We have forgotten that there is nothing we can do – or will do – to contribute to our salvation, but it is all based on the finished work of Christ on the cross (Romans 3:20). As the sound advice from those two men of God reminds us, what we need is to “Go back to the Gospel”.

“What you need is to go back to the gospel”

In Hebrews 6:13-19, the author refers to the promises God made to Abraham and the oath He swore to Him. In verses 17-19, the author beautifully writes: 

“Because God wanted to make the unchanging nature of his purpose very clear to the heirs of what was promised, he confirmed it with an oath. God did this so that, by two unchangeable things in which it is impossible for God to lie, we who have fled to take hold of the hope set before us may be greatly encouraged. We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain,”

To fully understand the beauty and gravity of this passage, we need to refer to Genesis where God made these promises and swore this oath to Abraham, and we need to examine the details of the oath. In Genesis 15, God appeared to Abraham in a vision and Abraham responded with uncertainty about God’s promises. In verse 2 Abraham says, “What shall you give me since I remain childless and the one who will inherit my estate is Eliezer of Damascus?”.

God responded to Abraham’s cry and then Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness (v6). However, in verse 9 God told Abraham to get some animals and in verse 10 Abraham cut these animals in two and lay them opposite each other (v10). A deep sleep then came on Abraham and a smoking brazier with a blazing torch appeared and passed between the pieces” (v17) and we are told in verse 18 that “On that day the LORD made a covenant with Abraham”. What is so beautiful about these verses? In Hebrew the words “made a covenant” translates “to cut covenant, alliance, pledge” (Biblehub). In Biblical times when a covenant was to be made, animals would be cut and placed opposite each other and the parties constituting the covenant would walk in between the pieces, signifying that if either party breaks the covenant, they would be cut like the animals presented (Ligonier Ministries). We see this in Jeremiah 34:18 where God says:

“Those who have violated my covenant and have not fulfilled the terms of the covenant they made before me, I will treat like the calf they cut in two and then walked between its pieces.”

Now we begin to understand the beauty of what the author is saying – the weight of the oath God made. If He were to break the terms of His covenant (symbolised by the theophany of the smoking brazier and the blazing torch), let Him be cut like the animals.

As Dr. R.C. Sproul would put it, ‘let the immutable God suffer mutation’. But, as we know, dear Christian, the living God can’t change! Do we see that the Lord has rooted the promises of our salvation in His very character, and not in anything we can do or will do? The very promise of being blessed in Christ is rooted in the integrity of God – that is why the author of Hebrews says, “In which it is impossible for God to lie” (v.18)! 

As the author continues, “We who have fled for refuge might have strong encouragement to hold fast to the hope set before us.” Dear friends, our salvation is a refuge, a strong encouragement – another version (NIV) describes it as an anchor for the soul. We also see this truth in Romans 10:9-11, John 6:40, John 3:16 and throughout the New Testament, because it is from our Lord Jesus Christ, who always keeps His promises.

The very promise of us being blessed in Christ is rooted in the integrity of god

Let us not overcomplicate the Gospel. God is faithful to His Word, and as Paul says in Romans 10:9 – “If you declare with your mouth Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you WILL be saved”. Do you see his logic? If A and B are true then surely C must follow. Yet some might say, “You haven’t considered D and E.” But no, Paul insists: If A and B are true, then C must follow. The real question to ponder sincerely in prayer is: “Is Christ truly my Lord, and is He fully my Saviour? Is He the only hope I have to face God? Is He my Lord?” And if, by His Spirit through His Word, He confirms that we are His children (Romans 8:16), then we can rest in the wonderful promise that “all who call upon the name of the Lord will be saved.” This doesn’t change the fact that we are still called to test ourselves to see if we are living in the faith (2 Corinthians 13:5), but we must rest more deeply in the finished work of Christ.

So, when we next face uncertainty and the accusations of the devil that seek to keep us in guilt, let us remind ourselves of the Cross. Let us remember that we are now included in Him (Ephesians 1:13), that we are now at peace with God (Romans 5:1), free from condemnation (Romans 8:1), saved, free, purified, washed, grafted in, and ultimately, His Children.

How is fearing God linked to deep wisdom?

Chinedu Agwu
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How is fearing God linked to deep wisdom?

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding” Proverbs 9:10-12.

As a younger Christian, I used to believe that “to fear God” was to be afraid of Him and afraid of what He would do to you if you disobeyed Him! I later learned that “fear of the Lord” is a reverential awe of Him based on who He is – that is, the Most Holy One, the King of kings, the Lord of Lords, the Creator of the universe … the list goes on. The beauty of this is that this act of obedience (fearing the Lord) is attached to a promise “…for through wisdom, your days will be many, and years will be added to your life. If you are wise, your wisdom will reward you;” Proverbs 9:11-12. In essence, this means that Wisdom begins when we have a right relationship with God, and has a promise of long life and personal benefit.

What does it really mean to Fear the Lord?

It is to put God in His rightful place in your life as Lord and King. It means yielding your will to His will and living to please Him and not ourselves. It also means growing to love the things He loves and hate the things He hates. In this world, we have consciously or unconsciously developed a tolerance for evil things that oppose the nature and will of God. We see these things on the television, and on the streets, and we hear them on the radio. As Christians, we are in constant opposition to the world’s value system and what it permits—whether in what children are taught in school, choices about sexuality, gender, or morality. To fear God is to live a life that honours His Word, adopting it as a lifestyle, even if it means standing as a minority.

So, if I’m a Christian, am I automatically made wise?

The simple answer to this question is NO! As we know from King Solomon in the book of Kings he asks for understanding to rule the people and the Lord is delighted with his sincere request (1 Kings 3:9-12) but again the Lord asks him to “walk in my ways” (1 Kings 3:14) which we see King Solomon fail to do sadly. Therefore, as Christians, we must continue to fear the Lord to gain spiritual wisdom, which enables us to apply knowledge rightly—knowledge that comes from understanding and spiritual insight given by the Spirit of God within us.

Where the Fear of God and Wisdom Are Mentioned in the Bible

  • Proverbs 2 – The pursuit of wisdom brings security.
  • 1 Corinthians 1:18 – Jesus is revealed as the power and wisdom of God.
  • Ecclesiastes 12:13 – Emphasises the importance of fearing God, linking to Proverbs 9:10.
  • Hebrews 12:28 – Encourages offering worship with awe and reverence.
  • Proverbs 1:20-33 – Wisdom personified warns us to follow Godly counsel and turn from our ways.

How can we walk in the fear of the Lord?

  • Give God Your Everything – Hold nothing back; don’t approach God half-heartedly. Commit yourself fully, surrendering every part of your life—thoughts, actions, and desires. God calls us to be wholehearted, hot or cold, not lukewarm but pouring all we are into our relationship with Him.
  • Offer Unrivalled Awe – God alone is worthy of our highest reverence and deepest devotion. Let your worship reflect awe that belongs to Him alone, a response to His holiness, power, and love. This is the purest form of worship, given with an open heart and spirit.
  • Unparalleled Allegiance – Serve God with a loyal and undivided heart. Let your love, obedience, and commitment be unmatched, reflecting what He commands in Deuteronomy 10:12: to love and serve Him with all your heart and soul. This is complete surrender, an allegiance that places God above all else.

Teach me your way, Lord, that I may rely on your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name.”

Psalm 86:11

Dear Saints, may we continue to choose God through our thoughts, choices and lifestyle because He truly is worthy of it all! Nothing and no one compares to Him, He has no match. If you have not been living a life that glorifies God, it is not too late to start now to put God in His rightful place in your life.

The Riots show that the UK needs healing

M.T. Omoniyi
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The Riots show that the UK needs healing

In recent weeks, the UK has witnessed scenes of unrest and division that have left many of us troubled and searching for answers. Riots and protests, often born out of deep-seated frustration, have erupted, highlighting the fractures in our society. As Christians, we are called not to turn away from these realities, but to engage with them through prayer and action, striving to be peacemakers in a world desperately in need of healing.

Praying for Unity

First and foremost, we must turn to God in prayer. The apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians 4:3 to “make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” Unity is not something that comes naturally in a world filled with differing opinions, experiences, and backgrounds. It is a gift from God, and one that we must actively seek through prayer.

When we pray for unity, we are not merely asking for the absence of conflict. We are seeking the deeper peace that comes from reconciliation and understanding. We pray for the Holy Spirit to soften hearts, to open our eyes to the pain of others, and to give us the courage to love those who are different from us. We ask God to help us see the image of Christ in every person we encounter, recognizing that every individual is a beloved child of God.

As we pray, we must also listen—to God, to our neighbours, and to those whose voices have been silenced or ignored. Prayer is not just about speaking; it is about being still before God and allowing Him to shape our hearts and minds. It is in this quiet place that we can begin to understand the depth of division in our world and the role we can play in bringing healing.

Committing to Community Work

Prayer must lead to action. James 2:17 tells us that “faith by itself if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” As we seek God’s guidance in prayer, we should also be asking how we can be His hands and feet in our communities. How can we be the bridge builders that our society so desperately needs?

Community work is one of the most tangible ways we can live out our faith. This can take many forms, from volunteering at a local food bank or shelter to mentoring young people, to organizing neighbourhood clean-ups. The specific actions we take will depend on the needs of our communities and the gifts God has given us. What is important is that we engage with the world around us, seeking to bring hope and healing wherever we go.

As we commit to community work, we must do so with a spirit of humility and love. It can be easy to fall into the trap of thinking we have all the answers or that our way of doing things is best. But true bridge building requires us to listen as much as we speak, to serve rather than to be served, and to work alongside others, even those we may not always agree with.

In a time of division, we have a unique opportunity to be agents of God’s peace. By committing ourselves to prayer and community work, we can help to heal the wounds of our society and bring people together. Let us not be discouraged by the challenges before us, but instead, trust in the power of God to work through us as we seek to be bridge builders in a broken world. Together, through Christ, we can help to create a society where love, justice, and unity prevail.

Stop following Influencers

M.T. Omoniyi
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Stop following Influencers

In an age where social media influencers and cultural icons shape the thoughts, behaviours, and aspirations of millions, it becomes crucial for Christians to remember and adhere to the words of Paul in 1 Corinthians 11:1: “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” This verse offers profound guidance on the importance of resisting the lure of worldly influences and instead, aligning our lives with the example set by Jesus Christ and his apostles.

The allure of worldly Influencers

The modern world is awash with influencers who command large followings on various social media platforms. They often dictate what we wear, how we think, and what we consider important. In many ways, they shape what we think about culture. The power of these influencers lies in their ability to shape perceptions and norms, often promoting values that are antithetical to Christian teachings. Materialism, vanity, and self-centeredness are frequently glamorized, diverting hearts and minds away from the simplicity and humility that Christ exemplified.

While there is nothing inherently wrong with appreciating beauty, fashion, or even some aspects of popular culture, the danger arises when these influencers start to shape our identities and values more than our faith does. As Christians, we are called to be in the world but not of it (John 17:16). This means we must carefully discern what and who we allow to influence our lives.

None of us live in a vacuum so it would be naive to think the social media age has no impact on us. Rather we should be exploring all the different ways these influencers shape us.

Paul’s example: A model for Christian living

In 1 Corinthians 11:1, Paul boldly invites believers to imitate him as he imitates Christ. Paul’s life was a testament to unwavering faith, sacrificial love, and relentless pursuit of God’s will. He endured persecution, hardship, and ridicule, yet remained steadfast in his mission to spread the Gospel. His writings are filled with practical wisdom and deep theological insights, making him an exemplary model for Christian living.

Paul’s exhortation to follow his example is not a call to idolize him, but rather to see a tangible expression of Christ’s teachings in him. Paul was acutely aware of his imperfections (Romans 7:15-20). Yet, he strove daily to live a life worthy of his calling (Ephesians 4:1). By urging others to follow his example, Paul highlights the importance of visible, lived-out faith that inspires and guides others.

The supreme example of Jesus Christ

More important than Paul’s example is the ultimate model provided by Jesus Christ. Jesus is the embodiment of divine love, mercy, and righteousness. His life and teachings offer the perfect blueprint for how we should live. Jesus’ humility, compassion, and obedience to the Father set him apart from any worldly influencer.

Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7) is particularly instructive. Here, Jesus outlines the characteristics of a life pleasing to God: meekness, mercy, purity of heart, and peacemaking, among others. These beatitudes starkly contrast with the values often promoted by popular culture, which tends to celebrate assertiveness, self-promotion, and personal gain.

How can you follow Jesus rather than influencers

  1. Engage with scripture regularly: The Bible is our primary source of truth and guidance. Regular reading and meditation on Scripture help us internalize God’s values and resist the pull of worldly influences. By immersing ourselves in God’s Word, we become more attuned to His voice and less susceptible to the clamor of the world.
  2. Prayer and communion with God: Maintaining a robust prayer life is crucial. Through prayer, we seek God’s wisdom and strength to live according to His will. Prayer keeps our focus on God and helps us navigate the complexities of modern life with divine perspective.
  3. Community and accountability: Being part of a faith community provides support and accountability. Fellow believers can encourage us, offer godly counsel, and hold us accountable when we stray. The Christian journey is not meant to be walked alone; we need the fellowship and encouragement of other believers.
  4. Selective media consumption: Be discerning about the media and influencers you follow. Evaluate whether they align with Christian values or if they lead you away from Christ-like living. Choose content that edifies and encourages spiritual growth rather than content that promotes materialism, vanity, or immorality.
  5. Model Christ in everyday life: Strive to embody Christ’s teachings in your daily interactions and decisions. Be a witness to His love and truth in your workplace, community, and home. Your life can serve as a positive influence, pointing others to Jesus.

In 1 Corinthians 11:1, Paul offers a profound reminder of the importance of following godly examples, with Christ as the ultimate model. In a world saturated with conflicting messages and values, Christians are called to stand apart, living lives that reflect the love, humility, and righteousness of Jesus.

By engaging deeply with Scripture, maintaining a strong prayer life, seeking community, being selective in our media consumption, and modelling Christ in our daily lives, we can resist the lure of worldly influences and instead, be true followers of Jesus Christ.

How to love people you don’t like

M.T. Omoniyi
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How to love people you don’t like

In the heart of the Christian faith lies a command that is as challenging as it is transformative: love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you (Matthew 5:44). This call to radical love is not merely a suggestion but a central tenet of living out the Gospel.

Understanding the command to love our enemies

As followers of Christ, we are invited to embody His love in ways that transcend natural inclinations and societal norms. Jesus’ teaching on loving enemies is rooted in His own example. During His ministry, Jesus consistently demonstrated love and compassion to those who opposed Him. From forgiving those who crucified Him (Luke 23:34) to reaching out to sinners and tax collectors, Jesus showcased a love that knew no bounds.

The command to love our enemies is profoundly counter-cultural. It challenges us to look beyond our grievances and personal hurts to see others through the eyes of Christ. This love is not about condoning harmful behaviour but about choosing a posture of grace and forgiveness. It reflects the unconditional love of God, who “causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous” (Matthew 5:45).

Why love our enemies?

If we look under the instructions, we can see all the ways loving our enemies helps us walk like Jesus, transforms us and in turn the world around us. This is why we should love our enemies.

  1. Reflecting God’s Character: Loving our enemies mirrors the heart of God. It demonstrates that His love is not limited by human standards but is freely given to all, regardless of their actions. By loving those who persecute us, we reflect the nature of a God who loves unconditionally.
  2. Transforming Hearts: Love has the power to transform. When we respond to hatred with love, we break the cycle of animosity. Our loving actions can soften hardened hearts, opening the door for reconciliation and healing.
  3. Personal Healing: Harboring hatred and resentment only harms us. It keeps us chained to our pain and prevents us from experiencing the fullness of life that God intends for us. Loving our enemies frees us from this bondage, allowing us to live in peace and joy.
  4. Witness to the World: In a world often marked by division and strife, loving our enemies serves as a powerful testimony to the transformative power of Christ. It sets us apart as His followers and draws others to the hope and peace found in Him.

How to love your enemies

Here are some practical ways we can walk like Jesus and love people we don’t like.

  • Pray for Them: Begin with prayer. Ask God to bless those who have wronged you and to work in their lives. Prayer shifts our focus from our hurt to God’s ability to bring about change.
  • Forgive Them: Forgiveness is a choice and a process. It may not happen overnight, but it starts with a decision to let go of bitterness. Remember, forgiveness does not excuse the wrong but releases its hold on you.
  • Seek Understanding: Try to see things from the perspective of your enemy. Understanding their story and struggles can foster empathy and compassion.
  • Act with Kindness: Look for practical ways to show kindness. This could be through a kind word, a helpful act, or simply a smile. Small gestures of kindness can break down barriers and build bridges.
  • Set Healthy Boundaries: Loving your enemy does not mean allowing abuse or harm. It’s important to set boundaries that protect your well-being while still choosing to love from a distance if necessary.

Loving our enemies and those who persecute us is a radical call, but it is one that lies at the heart of the Gospel. It is through this selfless love that we truly embody the message of Christ.

As we strive to love as He loved, we become instruments of His peace, reflecting His light in a world in desperate need of His grace and love. Let us take up this mantle with courage and faith, trusting that in loving our enemies, we draw closer to the heart of God and transform the world around us.

How to ‘be still and know’ that he is God.

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How to ‘be still and know’ that he is God.

In today’s fast-paced world, the demands on professionals and students are immense. With constant deadlines, relentless schedules, and the ever-present pressure to succeed, finding a moment of peace can seem impossible. Amidst this chaos, Psalm 46:10 offers a profound message of hope and tranquillity: “Be still, and know that I am God.”

Psalm 46:10 is a divine invitation to pause and recognize the sovereignty of God. This verse, nestled in a psalm that celebrates God’s power and protection, reminds us that in the midst of turmoil and uncertainty, God remains unshaken and omnipotent. “Be still” isn’t merely about physical stillness but calls for deeper spiritual rest, a trust that transcends our understanding.

Embracing stillness in a hectic life

For busy professionals and students, the concept of being still can feel counterintuitive. How can one possibly stop when there’s so much to do? Yet, it is precisely in these moments of overwhelming busyness that stillness becomes most crucial. I remember studying for my Masters at Manchester University. I thought I could approach this degree with the same somewhat cavalier attitude I approached my undergraduate with. Very quickly I realised the workload was not the same. Before I knew it, I was falling behind and my to-do list was rapidly growing. I was falling behind and it felt like I never made it to the end of my to-do list. I was starting to burn out and I would always feel guilty because there was still work to do.

Constant activity without rest leads to burnout. Psalm 46:10 encourages us to take a step back, breathe, and centre ourselves in God’s presence. This act of pausing and reflecting on God’s power can significantly reduce stress and anxiety. By acknowledging that God is in control, we can release our burdens and find peace. When we rest and we are still, we allow our thoughts to settle and the fear and anxiety to dissipate and we rest in the knowledge that God is in full control.

Real productivity

Ironically, taking time to be still can enhance productivity. When we continuously push ourselves without breaks, our efficiency decreases. By incorporating moments of stillness and prayer into our daily routine, we refresh our minds and spirits. This spiritual rejuvenation leads to clearer thinking and better decision-making, ultimately making us more effective in our tasks.

In the rush of daily life, our spiritual well-being often takes a backseat. Psalm 46:10 serves as a reminder to reconnect with our Creator. Through prayer, meditation, and reflection, we can deepen our relationship with God. This connection provides a solid foundation, helping us navigate life’s challenges with divine guidance and strength.

Practical Ways to Live Out Psalm 46:10

Implementing the principles of Psalm 46:10 requires intentionality. Here are some practical steps for busy professionals and students to incorporate stillness into their lives:

1. Start the Day with Prayer and Meditation

Begin your day by setting aside a few minutes for prayer and meditation. This practice sets a positive tone for the day, grounding you in God’s presence and peace.

2. Schedule Breaks for Reflection

Throughout the day, schedule short breaks to pause and reflect. Use these moments to breathe deeply, pray, and remind yourself of God’s sovereignty.

3. Create a Peaceful Environment

Designate a quiet space for reflection and prayer. Whether it’s a corner of your room or a spot in a nearby park, having a dedicated place can help cultivate stillness.

4. Engage in Mindful Activities

Incorporate activities that promote mindfulness, such as journaling, reading Scripture, or walking in nature. These practices can help you stay present and attuned to God’s presence.

5. End the Day with Gratitude

Conclude your day by reflecting on God’s blessings. Expressing gratitude helps shift your focus from the day’s stresses to the positive aspects of your life, reinforcing your trust in God’s provision.

Psalm 46:10 offers a powerful reminder of the importance of stillness and trust in God, especially for those leading busy lives. Embracing this verse can transform our approach to daily challenges, providing peace, clarity, and a deeper connection with God. By making time to “be still and know” that He is God, we invite His presence into our lives, finding solace and strength in His unchanging nature.

Do you know you are blind?

M.T. Omoniyi
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Do you know you are blind?

When Jesus heals a blind man in John 9, it calls into question our spiritual blindness and how we respond to novel teaching.

If you have read the bible, even a little bit then you will know that one of God’s most frequent promises through his prophets, major and minor is that he will open the eyes of the blind. When Jesus arrives on the scene in the New Testament he does indeed perform many miracles. However, when he heals the blind man in John 9, and the Pharisees gather around him, it prompts a question, who was really blind and who needed sight?

Studying the bible in my early 20s, anytime I saw Jesus perform a miracle, I would put myself with the group of those that celebrated or even the person elated that they had been healed. I wouldn’t put myself in the group of perplexed onlookers on even worse, the Pharisees that didn’t believe and actively fought against his miracle. It’s worth asking who you would have been in John 9:24-30.

“who executes justice for the oppressed, who gives food to the hungry. The Lord sets the prisoners free; the Lord opens the eyes of the blind. The Lord lifts up those who are bowed down; the Lord loves the righteous. The Lord watches over the sojourners; he upholds the widow and the fatherless, but the way of the wicked he brings to ruin.”

‭‭Psalm‬ ‭146‬:‭7‬-‭9‬ ‭ESV — God has always made himself known as he who opens the eyes of the blind.

Jesus Heals The Man

Earlier in chapter 9, Jesus heals a man who has been blind from birth. This gets them both in trouble with the local teachers and in verses 24-30, the healed man is being interrogated. As you read this passage, try to picture this exchange in your mind’s eye and pay close attention to the tone of their words.

“So for the second time, they called the man who had been blind and said to him, “Give glory to God. We know that this man is a sinner.” He answered, “Whether he is a sinner I do not know. One thing I do know is that though I was blind, now I see.” He answered them, “I have told you already, and you would not listen. Why do you want to hear it again? Do you also want to become his disciples?” And they reviled him, saying, “You are his disciple, but we are disciples of Moses. We know that God has spoken to Moses, but as for this man, we do not know where he comes from.” The man answered, “Why, this is an amazing thing! You do not know where he comes from, and yet he opened my eyes.”

‭‭John‬ ‭9‬:‭24‬-‭25‬, ‭27‬-‭30‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Why are the teachers so entrenched in their thinking? Why are they blind to what God has done? Perhaps it was because, as teachers, they held a lot of power. Is it possible that a new rabbi, who not only speaks with authority but also can back up His teaching with extraordinary miracles, threatens their power base? It is said that those who control the narrative control the people, and in this passage, we see the teachers desperately trying to control the narrative. They are afraid and find it hard to afford this new rabbi.

It’s important to ask ourselves who we are in this story. Are we too sometimes threatened by those who teach something different from what we currently believe or even teach? Do we feel out of joint when the narratives, the stories we tell ourselves about who we are, who God is, and what the world is like, get challenged?

Often we are closed off to new perspectives because of fear of losing power, place and prestige. This is where the Pharisees found themselves. It’s a strange turnaround really. The blind man was given his sight, and the seeing people were blind to what God was doing.

“And I will lead the blind in a way that they do not know, in paths that they have not known I will guide them. I will turn the darkness before them into light, the rough places into level ground. These are the things I do, and I do not forsake them.”

‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭42‬:‭16‬ ‭ESV‬‬

It’s easy to scoff at the blind Pharisees who were unwilling to see Jesus and accept him. However, sometimes we are the Pharisees. We don’t lean on God and aren’t always ready to accept new teachings and challenges.

God, we admit that we are not good at seeing or learning. We don’t want to be blind to where You are at work in our lives. Help us to ask the right questions. Lead us out of outdated paradigms. Loosen our grip on our need to be right.

Help us to learn from You.

The fight to see God as Beautiful 

Chude Obuaya
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The fight to see God as Beautiful 

Throughout the scriptures, we are called to worship the Lord. But to worship the Lord rightly we have to know Him. More than that, we have to see Him rightly.

Ascribe to the Lord, all you families of nations,
    ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.
Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name;
    bring an offering and come into his courts.
Worship the Lord in the splendor of his[a] holiness;
    tremble before him, all the earth.

Psalm 96:7-9

We live in an age where authority is being fought against. There are many horror stories of the abuse of authority in various spheres – including the church. As a result, a reasonable question arises; can any authority be trusted? Yet, in the scriptures, it couldn’t be more clear that we ought to submit to the authority of God. Even more so that we are explicitly commanded to worship God. In the book of Exodus, the Israelites have just been liberated from slavery through the mighty hand of God yet shortly after their liberation they seem to forget who redeemed them. They consistently complain against the One who saved them, even wishing to return to slavery (Exodus 16:3). God, however, was committed to His people and demonstrated that by drawing up a covenant between Him and the Israelites. As this covenant was being created, the Israelites became impatient and created another god for themselves attributing praise to this creation of their hands that belonged alone to God (Exodus 32). The Israelites forgot the reason for their liberation – to worship God (Exodus 7:16, 8:1). 

The Beauty of God as the foundation of Worship 

Like the Israelites, we often are prone to forgetting about the God who saved us. When we have prayed regarding a situation or person, if God doesn’t answer us as quickly as we would like; we are swift to form a God who will. Why do we do this? Because we fail to see God as beautiful. Now, I refer to beauty not in the sense of attraction but one of delight. The problem of the Israelites is the problem of all of mankind. Sin causes us to see God differently from how we ought to see Him. Satan seeks to tempt us to believe the lie that God isn’t as good as He is. That God has some nefarious motive in loving us and that there is some catch to the eternal joy that God promises us in Christ. We are commanded to delight in the Lord (Psalm 37:4), follow the Lord (Deuteronomy 30:16), and obey the Lord (1 John 5:3) and these commands are impossible. We cannot follow these commands apart from Christ. If our problem is sin, then our solution is Christ. Sin corrupts our members so we are unable to enjoy God in all His fullness. Thanks be God for the promise of the gospel. All who trust in Jesus will be saved from their sins and given new and eternal life. The new covenant we enter in Christ is better than the old. We are given a new mind and affection to see God as He is. Now these commands we are called to obey are no longer burdens for the soul, but delights for our heart (1 John 5:3-4). 

Satan, sin and this world are waging war against us and want us to believe that God isn’t as good as He declares He is. Do not believe their lies. Each day we are being transformed from glory to the next (2 Corinthians 3:18) and one day we will see Jesus exactly how He is (1 John 3:2). And together, with all the saints, we will worship God in the beauty of His holiness (Psalm 96:9).

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