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How Do I Discover God’s Purpose For My Life?

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Why am I here? What is my purpose? What am I supposed to be doing in this period of my life? These are questions that anyone with breath in their lungs will either have wrestled with or might be wrestling with. You as the reader might even find yourself pondering these questions. My hope is that by the end of this read, you will be filled with a God centred trust, peace and hope regarding your future.

Your Present And Future Is God’s Past Memory.

In other words, you’re contemplating what God has already envisioned. Psalms 139:16 comforts us with the following verse, “Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” Jesus stated that he came to do what was already written in the scriptures according to God’s will (Hebrews 10:7). God essentially authored the autobiography of Jesus’ life, the prophetic words we read in Isiah 9:6 and other passages of the Old Testament are the things Christ became flesh to fulfil. In the same fashion, God has envisioned and authored the fulfilling and purposeful autobiographies of you and me. He created our human bodies for His vision to be fulfilled on the earth. We do ourselves a great disservice trying to figure out the answer to these big questions of our life without its source.

Prioritise Intimacy With God

The psalmist states “My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place when I was woven together in the depths of the earth (Psalm 139:15).” Our lives were formed in the secret place and it’s in the secret place that we uncover it. In the secret place is where we ask God the deep things concerning our lives and he guides us in connecting the dots of the skills, passions and talents that He intricately formed in us. It’s where he leads and guides us into what He authored beforehand as we prayerfully, persistently and patiently ask Him to lead and guide us. One of the superpowers of the secret place and intimacy with God is seeing the famous verse on faith come alive and replace all our worries and anxieties about our present and future with confidence and assurance. “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” (Hebrews 11:1).

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Prayer Is The Master Key

When Cornelius calls for Peter, and Peter goes to see Him, they are both led by God to meet one another in their times of prayer (Acts 10). When the Church at Antioch were praying and fasting, they were led by God to consecrate Paul and Barnabas for his work Acts 13:2. There’s an obvious correlation that we ought to learn and emulate between Jesus’s prayer life as documented all over the gospel, and his seamless discernment of and submission to what the Father was saying (John 12:49) and doing (John 5:19).  May the Holy Spirit direct us to discern and enable us to perform God’s will concerning our lives in the present and future.

Love Is Not Self Seeking

Joke: Which Bible character was super-fit? Abs-salom.

Love is the greatest gift that God gives. In 1 Corinthians 13, we have an elegantly beautiful description of God’s type of love. To help us understand all that love entails, the apostle Paul includes some things that love is not. For example, love “is not self-seeking” (verse 5), also translated as love “does not insist on its own way” (ESV).

The Greek phrase literally means “does not seek the things of itself.” Self-focus, which is the antithesis of love, marked the Corinthian church. 

This was evident in the church’s divisiveness regarding leadership (chapters 1–3), its attitude toward Paul (chapter 4), its attitude toward legal issues with other Christians (chapter 6), its attitude toward the Lord’s Supper (chapter 11), and its attitude toward spiritual gifts (chapter 12). 

Paul wanted these believers to stop focusing on their own needs and preferences and serve God and one another.

Discuss

  • Why do we find it dificult to not focus on our own needs?
  • Do you think we live in a ‘Dog eat dog’ world?’ — Do you have any examples of this?

How Do Rid Ourself of Selfishness 

The corrective to self-seeking is God-seeking. The remedy for selfishness is love. Jesus said, “’You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’

The second [commandment] is this: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself” (Mark 12:30-31). Love for God and others is to mark the believer; not love for self.

Some have mistakenly interpreted “love your neighbour as yourself” as teaching self-love in order to love others. That is, we must love ourselves first before we can truly love others. But this is not the teaching of the passage. 

Self-love is assumed to be the default condition; Jesus was teaching that concern for others must equal the natural concern we have for ourselves. 

Also, Jesus was appealing to the Torah, specifically Leviticus 19:17-18, which reads, “Do not hate your brother in your heart. Rebuke your neighbour frankly so you will not share in his guilt. Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbour as yourself. I am the LORD.” 

The context deals with treating others fairly, without vengeance, and with love. It has no reference to self-love.

This focus on others and their needs correspond to Philippians 2:4, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also to the interests of others.”

The command appeals to the selfless actions of Jesus Christ as the ultimate example. The New Testament often mentions the need to turn from self and toward helping other people.

A person who demands his own way, who tramples on others’ rights for the sake of upholding his own, or who insists on having his due is not showing love. Love is considerate of others, always.

The one who loves is willing to forgo recognition and lay down his rights for the sake of the loved one. Jesus showed love in this way: He “did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45). No self-seeking there.

The New Testament and ‘Self-seeking

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honour” (Romans 12:10 ESV).

When we love one another we publicly, and privately, esteem them more honourable than ourselves. Instead of drawing attention to our own accomplishments or good characteristics, we point out those things in the lives of others.

“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight” (Romans 12:16 ESV).

Loving unselfishly means that we do not think of ourselves as better than others. That is prideful thinking and stifles humility. Acting as if you are better than others makes them uncomfortable around you because it makes them think they are worthless. Or it will cause arguments and futile debates between Christians trying to outdo one another. Neither of these attitudes depicts the unselfish love of God in our lives.

“As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions…Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother” (Romans 14:1, 13 ESV).

One who practices love that is not self-seeking will strive to never let his or her opinion be the basis by which someone else questions his or her faith. We should always express ourselves in a loving way, not a confrontational way. The Christian is commanded to serve others (Galatians 5:13, 1 Peter 4:10); it is difficult to maintain a prideful attitude when one’s motivation is serving others.

Selfless love cares for, and encourages, others

As believers we are to “care for one another” (1 Corinthians 12:25 ESV), we are to attempt to restore a fallen brother or sister as we comfort them. As much as possible, we are to agree with one another and live in peace. When we live this way, the “God of love and peace” will be in our midst (2 Corinthians 13:11 ESV).

How to trust God in the transitional period

The transitional period is a time or season in which things are changing from one form to another. It’s when a phase in your life has ended and you’re moving to a new phase. The transitional period is usually uncomfortable and can be quite worrying sometimes. It creates a feeling of uncertainty and leaves people fearful for the future. This article will be discussing how to trust God in the transitional period.

Examples of transitional periods

Transitional periods usually occur where an individual is leaving the known and delving into the unknown or the uncertain. An example of a transitional period is when a person leaves university and starts applying for jobs. Or when a person is leaving one job and either hoping for a new job or moving to a new job. It could also be a waiting period for those who are single and hope to be married. Or even just a move from one country to another or from one year to another.

There’s no exact timing for a transitional period, but it’s common for people to be worried during this time. We may not know what is coming next or how it will come, but it is important that we remember that God does and He is in control. So we must trust God, the author, and finisher of our faith; Hebrews 12:2.

How to trust God in the transitional period
  1. Tarry in the presence of God: God’s presence transforms, renews, promotes, instructs, rejuvenates and instills hope. Where there is God, there is hope. So spend time in God’s presence, worshipping and speaking to God. It will build you and prepare you for the next steps. There is no way you can tarry in God’s presence without a change for the better occurring. God’s presence will also bulster and strengthen your faith.
  2. Read the Bible: You need to find out what God is saying concerning you. To find it, you have to search the Word of God. It’s in His word that you will find solace and God’s promises concerning you. God’s word also encourages and reminds us of His faithfulness. The Bible also shows us historical stories of men and women who had faith in God and did great things. It allows you to consider the story of Daniel, Abraham, Joseph, Esther, David, Jesus and so many other great people of faith who went through the transitional and waiting period. Not one of them can say God failed.
  3. Hold unto God’s promises to you: Hebrews 10:23; “We must hold on to God’s promise that we have said we believed. And we must never let go. He has promised and He will do it.” Job in the Bible was going through a rough and extremely painful period, but He still held on to God; Job 13:15. Remind yourself that while man can fail, God will never and can never fail. So if God has said it, He will surely do it. You need to repeatedly remind yourself of what God has said concerning you. Then remind yourself, that every word that God has spoken, He has fulfilled; Joshua 23:14.
  4. Keep working on yourself: Don’t stay idle and expect thigs to fall into your laps. Instead, find ways to develop and build yourself. The new skills you acquire and the things you invest in could be the stepping stone to your greater change. So don’t shy away from development and change. Instead grasp life with both hands and do the best that you can. Don’t become idle, David made massive errors that led to a lot of heartache because he was idle (2 Samuel 11); (Proverbs 18:9). But make sure that what you do is not in contravention with the will and word of God. Abraham wasn’t willing to wait and instead he had an affair with Hagar which brought a lot of heartache. Joseph on the other hand held on to his faith and fear of God instead of succumbing to Potiphar’s wife and it worked out gloriously for him.
  5. Profess goodness and success: There is power in our words, so make use of it. The more you state something, the more you believe it. So speak what you want to see. Speak what God has said to you and speak your hopes out loud. Command your morning, your day, your evening and your night. Profess progress and success into your day and your life.
  6. Ask God to help your unbelief. If you’re struggling to stay hopeful or full of faith, just ask God to help you have faith. Ask Him to strengthen your faith and He will surely do it. This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us (1 John 5:14).

Dear Christian, Be An Alien

Since you’ve become a Christian, what has changed? Do you have different desires, interests, passions or battles? Or are things the same? Throughout the scriptures, Christians are described as aliens. As those who ought to be experiencing a transient reality in this world. Yet, a problem first identified in the early church, finds itself present in the modern church. This problem is conformity. Whilst Christians are ought to be lights that are set on top of a hill (Matthew 5:14), we often find ourselves dimming this light as if it’s a shame to share the glow of Christ. When the world around us tempts us to imitate its nature, the call of God declares in defiance be alien.

You’ve Been Changed

Another way to consider being an alien is to be holy. To be holy is simply to be set apart or dedicated to God. When a person is saved, they are immediately made holy. This person is taken from the domain of darkness and transferred to the kingdom of light (Colossians 1:13). Now you have been made holy, the next step is to be holy. This is the message proclaimed by the apostle Peter to the Christian exiles in the first century (1 Peter 1:1). Like the early Christians, we can be tempted to deviate from our new nature because of the various trials that we face. When times are hard, we can be drawn to one of two extremes: either trust in our good works to prove our holiness or discarding holiness altogether and swimming with the current of whatever culture deems acceptable. But there’s another way, a better way that Peter presents to us. Before any call to holiness, Peter reminds us that we are holy already (1 Peter 1:1-2, 3-5). Peter lets us know we aren’t trying to become holy, instead we are called to live out who we already are (1 Peter 1:13-14). The impetus behind our holiness is not our actions but Christ’s

Dare to be different

The temptation to conform is all around us. It can seem like a never-ending bombardment of ungodliness that seeks to penetrate our minds to tell us “Holiness is impossible”. And yet, Peter quickly dismisses this notion by repeating what God first told the Israelites on their pilgrimage to the promised land, “Be holy” (Leviticus 20:7; 1 Peter 1:16). Or in other words, be alien. This is not a call to be different for the sake of being different. Instead, it is a call to fulfil what we were created for; to spread the fragrance of God’s glory anywhere we may find ourselves (Genesis 1:26-28, Psalm 8, 2 Corinthians 2:14-15). To be an alien is to be so consumed by the glory of God that it impacts every part of your being. This may mean that you don’t watch certain shows or go to certain events. But it does mean that as you go out into the world people should be able to say of you “…these people have been with Jesus” (Acts 4:13).

Don’t Give Up On God

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Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life

Proverbs 13:12

Can you believe we’re in the year 2022! That came around quickly, didn’t it?! Naturally around January, being the start of the year, there is a lot of conversation about “New Year’s Resolution”, “Goal-setting” and so on…you may have already set yours! I remember in the year 2020, it was all about “2020 vision”. However let me ask you something, what happens when that goal you set/or the vision you wrote down doesn’t come to pass in the time you expected or in the way you wanted it to? Or you were disappointed with a particular outcome from the previous year. How do we muster the courage to hope again? Hopefully, by the end of the article, we’ll be closer to the answer.

Then the Lord answered me and said: “Write the vision and make it plain on tablets

Habakuk 2:2

I can say with confidence that we have ALL been there, you’ve entered the new year and you’re eager to set goals and New Year’s resolutions e.g., healthier diet, start the gym, do better at uni/work, pray more, cut off that relationship, the list goes on. Yet whilst we may start strong at the beginning our motivation and focus may wane through the year, it doesn’t always endure. Or we are hoping and praying for something such as a financial increase, healing, a change in location, a spouse, that new job etc. We hope and hope, yet we don’t see a shift. We don’t see a change in circumstances. Is it all in vain? In our hope and anticipation about what is to come, we shouldn’t neglect the gifts of the present nor should we desire the thing we are “hoping for” more than the God who we want to grant it. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7). In some Bible translations of this verse, it says “ask and keep on asking”, the underlying theme of persistence is present but also our heart posture is important during the waiting period, we must ask/seek/knock with expectation.

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Let go of your timeline…

Friends your feelings of frustration and restlessness are natural but “let patience have its perfect work” James 1:4-8, exercise patience during these times. Adopt a farmer’s mindset, we plant seeds (goals/resolutions), we water it and nurture the soil then wait for the harvest (God’s response). In some cases, we sow and reap in the same year (Genesis 26:12), whilst sometimes it takes longer to see the harvest. Either way, we must trust that God’s word doesn’t return to Him void (Isaiah 55:11), if God’s not done working then we should not be done waiting! So let us pray for grace to wait well. Reignite the flame of hope once more and fan the flame by speaking God’s Word into that vision/new habit/goal. Open your heart and mind to His will but continue to do your part, whilst leaving space for God to do what only He can do in your life.

He makes all things beautiful in His time

Ecclesiastes 3:11

Ideas for when your hope is waning

  • Pray for renewed hope/vision
  • Revisit the journal you wrote your idea down or write down your heart’s desire in a journal
  • Create a Vision board (without putting a year/date) and stick it on your wall/phone/laptop screensaver
  • Talk to your accountability partners who started the journey of hope with you

Waiting is not easy. Recovering from setbacks and disappointments is not easy. Yet we have been given a resilient spirit and we serve a God who we can confidently put our hope in. Always remember that “anyone who trusts in Him will never be put to shame” Romans 10:11. This is not a “nice phrase” but an anchor to stabilise us in times of fear/anxiety/discouragement.

Cancel Culture vs Calling People Out

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Cancel culture has had a huge impact on our generation. Authors, Influencers, Celebrities, basically
anyone who is in the public eye has probably had a stint with nearly or undeniably being cancelled.
More recently, we saw many attempt to ‘cancel’ Molly Mae for her comments on the fact we all
have the same 24 hours. It is clear that many in our generation believe they have a moral high
ground over people who are in the public eye and it is their right to enforce it. This article question
how true that is and as Christians what should our response be to cancel culture?

The Nature of Cancel Culture

Firstly, this article does not attempt to deny the need for accountability. In the bible Jesus instructs
us that “if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit
of gentleness
” (Galatians 6:1). There is nothing restorative nor gentle about cancel culture. This is
not me saying that people should not be corrected when they do wrong but when we do so we must
do so to provoke a repentant and changed heart, not to emotionally abuse people through our
keyboards or force them into sharing our opinions. Cancel culture is what the bible calls ‘the clanging
cymbal/ resounding gong’ – meaning words not said in love that just cause a lot of irritating noise.
Yes, the person being ‘cancelled’ may have lost a few thousand followers and issued a public apology
but at what cost? Frustration is an inevitable emotion but it is not one that should be laid to rest on
another human.

When we think about the love of Christ we really do not have any right to call ourselves worthy of
cancelling one another. The bible says ‘let he who is without sin cast the first stone’ and immediately
we all realise we are unworthy. It is pride that give us a false superior moral stance and makes us
think we can cancel a whole person. We must Take out the log in your own eye before you talk
about the stick in someone else’s. It is important to ask ourselves what would be the verdict if all the
wrong things we had said about others were brought up. I personally know that I would have no
case to stand.

Instead of engaging with cancel culture here are some way to call out wrong doings.

Be intentional with your language

When calling out people’s wrongs make sure that your language is beneficial and spoken in love not
anger. (Proverbs 18:21)

Does it always have to be public?

In order not to be another voice in an array of abuse, why don’t you try and speak to people in a
more personal way, send a direct message? If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private
(Matthew 18:15)

Has pride entered the chat?

The bible tells us that pride comes before the fall. (Proverbs 16:18) Pride means seeing yourself as
higher. Be aware that if we looked into your history would you be proud of everything you saw.
Always reflect on your intentions before you comment on someone else’s wrongdoing. Engage the
Holy Spirit and look out for the soft still voice in the midst of the rage and try and hear for the best
way to get your thoughts across.

Remember as Christians we are called to be set apart and not just follow the crowd. We are not called to simply go with flow of culture even when it may appear justified. The bible instructs us to constantly renew our minds and be filled with love not rage.

Are You Ashamed Of Your Testimony?

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You may be thinking, that’s an odd thing; to be ashamed of a testimony. Is it even possible to be ashamed of something great God has done in your life? It may have been sheer confusion or even intrigue that promoted your interest in this article. Either way, allow me to explain where it comes from.

I was privileged enough to have had the Gospel presented to me at a young age.

I was 13 years old in my church when a guest pastor mounted the stage and my life would change forever. He preached the Gospel in a way I had never heard before. He was eccentric, smart and eloquent. Sweating on that stage, he skilfully articulated something that had been obfuscated in the church thus far; the explicit Gospel. He preached about Gods wrath, Jesus the saviour and how we could obtain eternal life. After he asked us to respond and I responded, I believe I became a Christian that afternoon.

As I grew up in the church, I would hear many people give their testimonies, how they came to know Jesus and believe in him and after celebrating with them, I would often take a look at my life and in compassion, my story just did not sound interesting enough. My story sounded mundane and ordinary whilst others were som colourful and vivid.

I remember one particular Sunday service where a friend of mine held the youth churches attention as he told his story of salvation. Jaws dropped, they hung on his every word as he explained how he was stabbed by a gang and fell to the ground, right before he passed out he asked God to save him and that if God did, he promised to follow Jesus for the rest of his days. The youth church drew a collective gasp and started to clap. I clapped too but in my young mind, I also thought. ‘that’s so cool’, why didn’t I have a story like this to tell, why was my testimony so vanilla and ‘ordinary’.

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It’s hard to articulate what I felt, but for years I would pass on the opportunity to tell my story, I would change the subject or defer to people who had more interesting stories to tell about how they met Jesus. Growing up and maturing in the Word has helped me address this earlier gnawing concern of mine

We are not really aware of our depravity.

One of the major reasons we seem to be shy about our testimonies is because many people aren’t taught about the nature of their depravity, what they saved from and the gravity of their sin. Despite what your life before salvation looks like to the carnal eye, no matter how grotesque or good it may appear to you, the truth is that the carnal eye cannot weigh up things in this way. In Ephesians 2:1, the bible says you ‘were dead in your trespasses and sins’. This was our default state before we knew Christ. We were dead. There are no degrees of spiritual death, dead is dead. It is only carnal eyes that rank sins in this way, the biblical reality is the same across all people and is very serious.

Consider this, the God of the universe who controls all things, the wind changes directions at his behest, the seasons follow his leading and the sun is only a spec of his brightness. This God that controls all things, called you and you said no. This is the gravity of our transgression. A day spent in rebellion against this great God is a day too much. That he did not wipe the earth of us is a miracle; instead, he waited for us and in his time he saved us. It really is as Michale.

Maybe you were the pastor’s kid or a pretty smart kid or you got saved young. You probably don’t think you were that bad. You maybe stole a sweet here or there but you never murdered someone. Maybe you think a white lie here and there can’t be that bad compared to a murderer. Rather than focusing on what you can remember you did, considered who you sinned against.

Consider your sin against an almighty and righteous God, consider the depth of the sin. I grew up trapped in my web of lies, dripping in jealousy and revelling in sexual immorality. Every time I tried to be good, it would last for weeks and I would fall back harder than I did before. I would dig an increasingly deeper hole for myself, trapped between peoples image of me and who I really was. When the gospel was presented to me, it was a miracle. It was a breath of fresh air after being underwater for so long. How could God bring good out of my life when there was so much bad? How could be fashion something beautiful out of something so broken? Well, that’s God. That’s the miracle of his work, bringing beauty from the ashes.

When we understand the depth of our depravity, then we can start to really appreciate just what God saved us from. We appreciate Jesus so much more because we realise just where our lives were going without him. The only thing we contribute to our salvation is the sin that makes it necessary

What is the greatest miracle?

There is much debate in theological circles about the most amazing miracle Jesus performed. Some say it’s the feeding of the five thousand with barley loaves. The sheer spectacle of it must have been much to behold. Others hold to Jesus turning water to wine, in a time where natural fermentation took forever, this miracle would have made some mouths drop to the ground. That wine could be created so instantaneously.

Today many marvels at healing services and legs growing on social media but of course, consider an even greater miracle. There’s a famous gospel song that poses a set of interesting questions. How can a brown cow, eat green grass and produce white milk? Don’t worry, you don’t have to answer. Consider God’s chemical laboratory of redemption that takes our black hearts, stained with sin, dips it in red blood, the blood of Jesus and we come out white as snow. This is what Jesus achieved on a cross, a miracle that would melt our brains if we tried to understand it. He took something dead and gave it new life. He closed a void that nothing else could close. He bridged the gap. Whether you were stabbed or not, this is what it means to be snatched from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light. It’s the same thing for all of us. We all sin and fall short and all of us are inputted with Christ’s righteousness, Romans 3:23

Are You Producing the Fruits of the Spirit?

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Members of the early church were called Christians because their character resembled Jesus’ character while He was on earth. Their likeness and resemblance to Jesus Christ, by following His teachings and dedicating their lives to Him, was what made people name them Christians. So as a Christian, are you portraying the fruit of the Spirit? Do you think you’re a Christian by name, or by attribute?

What is the fruit of the Spirit?

Children of God are called to bear and birth the fruit of the Spirit. To do this, we have to know what the fruit of the Spirit is.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23

These are the character traits that we ought to portray. We’re supposed to be full of love, joy, peace, and everything listed in Galatians 5:22-23. But it can’t just be an act, because the cracks will show. When people meet you outside of the church, do they know from your character that you’re a Christian?

A blueberry tree bears blueberries.

Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

Matthew 7:20

To be known by your fruits means to be identified through your actions, words, deeds, thoughts, desires. It means to be recognised by what you manifest, surround yourself with, and what comes out of your mouth. It was what people saw in the early Church that prompted them to call the church Christians.

Many people call themselves Christians but act even more worldly than people of the world. Bearing the fruit of the Spirit is not just about speaking it and acting it, but it’s most importantly about the heart. Jeremiah 17:10; “I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, even to give to each man according to his ways, according to the results of his deeds.

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name and in Your name drive out demons and in Your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’

Matthew 7 :21-23

It is impossible to keep an act up forever, but it is possible to be transformed into a bearer of good fruits.

How do we bear the fruits of the Spirit?

I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in Me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.

John 15:5
  1. You can bear the fruit of the Spirit by accepting Jesus as your Lord and Saviour.
  2. Ask God: The source of the fruit of the Spirit is Jesus. He’s the sunlight, the soil, the water, and the seed for the fruit of the Spirit. Without Jesus, you can’t bear good fruits. We don’t have the natural ability to be bear the fruit of the Spirit, but God does. So if you want to truly bear the fruits of the Spirit, go to your Father in heaven Who is very ready to give the Holy Spirit to all who ask (Luke 11:13).
  3. Search yourself daily and ask God to search your heart daily (Psalm 139:23-24). In the process of growth, it’s possible for weeds (bad habits and self) to hide and grow along with the fruits that you are growing. That’s why it’s important to search your heart and submit your heart to God daily, so He can work on you.

As you continue to seek God and His kingdom, you’ll begin to see the internal change and then begin to manifest the fruit of the spirit.

What Do You Lie About?

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Culture is influential. Some of what we believe to be true is influenced by the environment around us. We may deem that something is right or wrong simply because the people around us hold to a particular view. This cultural influence threatens to devour the Holy Spirit’s influence that ought to govern our lives. What the Bible explicitly states to be wrong, we may be tempted to deny, because in today’s culture it is deemed acceptable. One of these things is lying. How do you view lying? Do you have a zero-tolerance policy on lying? Or do you divide lies into big or small? White or otherwise? How we view and deal with lying tells us a lot about what we view about God.

Why Lie?

Cambridge Dictionary defines the word lie as “something you say that you know is not true”. This definition is partly right. Where this definition falters is that it neglects the condition of the human heart apart from God. We do not primarily lie because we want to hide the truth, we primarily lie because we do not know the truth as a result of our sinful nature. John 8 gives us the clearest exposition of this point. At the beginning of John 8, Jesus declares that He is the light of the world (John 8:12), which confirms the multiple Old Testament prophecies which stated this (Exodus 25:27, Leviticus 24:2, Psalm 27:1, Isaiah 9:2). The Pharisees took issue with Jesus’ statement because they judged wrongly (John 8:13-19). Jesus later identifies why they judged (concluded) wrongly, because of the condition of their hearts (John 8:39-41). And this is ultimately why we lie. We lie not merely to obscure the truth; our hearts don’t have the capacity to receive the truth. To speak the truth means to identify with the Light and to say what God says has a preeminent place not just in my head but in my heart (John 8:31-32).

Truth Over Lies

The battle between telling the truth and lying is really the battle of freedom. The reason why we lie is that we believe we can get, with a lie, what Jesus promises we can only get with the truth – freedom (John 8:32). Those who default to lying expose the nature of their heart – fallen. Their idea of freedom is too small. To paraphrase John Piper, you’re not free if the decisions you make today will not make you eternally happy. When we decide to lie, we often think of the consequences that we will face and rarely the consequences that others will face because of our lies. The reverse is also true. Perhaps, due to the condition of our hearts, we are blind to the freedom that is available on the other side of telling the truth.

The antidote for a corrupt, lying heart isn’t telling the truth, but the Gospel. Telling the truth is good but can’t change the heart that seeks to enthrone lies when the truth is inconvenient to tell. We need the Gospel that tells us that the condition of our heart is corrupt and fallen due to sin and there’s nothing we can do to change that. Therefore, we need Jesus who lived, died and resurrected for us- who doesn’t mend our heart but gives us a new one. With this new heart, our perception of lying changes. We realise to lie is to identify with Satan, whose nature is to lie (John 8:44). Instead, our desire is, to tell the truth, because when we tell the truth we declare that our allegiance is to the light and that we are free. When we tell the truth we declare that since my security is in Christ, I need not fear the consequences of telling the truth. If you’re struggling with lying today, turn to Christ. There is no lie that you have told that can’t be forgiven by Jesus.

You Are Not Your Sin

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A few years ago, my little cousin was misbehaving and to reprimand I told him to sit in the naughty corner. After he served his time, I lifted his punishment. I noticed his sadness and how it inspired him to keep his distance from me. I called him over to me and he respectfully declined my invitation, he’s rebuttal was ‘I don’t want to come to you because I’m naughty ‘. The interaction reminded me of the uncanny resemblance of how Christians who identify themselves by their sin and cause it to distance them from God was before my eyes.

How Do We Respond To Sin?

This is something we can all relate to as human beings. A liar is branded as a liar because he lies, and his judgment is the fact that everything he says must be taken with a pinch of salt. My cousin expected me to treat him the same way, he believed what he earned was the distance from my presence. I’ll revisit the story and tell you how I responded to my cousin, but first a question.

How many of us can relate to identifying ourselves by our sin and allowing it to create a wedge between us and God? If we were to be honest with ourselves, a vast majority would say we can relate to this. This is the present-day reality for some even reading at this moment. But is the way we ought to respond? That’s the question this article seeks to answer.

He Who Knew No Sin

To identify ourselves by our sin and distance ourselves from God is anti-gospel. This is because the gospel is the good news of not just a change of life but an exchange of life. It’s a Righteous Jesus, dying in the place of sinful Barabbas. The name ‘Barabbas’ means son of the father. We are like Barabbas in that we are guilty deserving of condemnation, but Christ died in our place and by the substitution on the cross we become sons of the Father, taking on the same identity as Jesus.

Paul puts it this way: ‘God made Him who knew sin to be sin that we may be the righteousness of God that’s in Christ Jesus. (2 Corinthians 5:21) Because of what Christ accomplished on the cross we are holy and blameless before God. We couldn’t do it with our works, therefore, we can’t undo it with our works. If we could then Christ would not have had to die and Colossians 1:21-22 would be nullified. 

By identifying ourselves through what Jesus accomplished we are ‘making the tree good, so the fruit would be good also’. Jesus said, “Make a tree good and its fruit will be good or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit.” Matthew 12:33

We are the tree that Christ made good on the cross, but we must believe that we are now who He says we are because of the cross: Holy and blameless sons of God. Remember your sin cannot change that. If we attach our faith to our identity in Christ, our fruit will catch up.

Back to my story. I responded to my cousin the way God responds to Christians when we sin. I told him he’s not naughty and that he’s a good boy that misbehaved. But his misbehaviour does not define him. I beckoned him closer, hugged and embraced him.